After reshaping my own story of codependency over the past decade—and walking alongside countless women and couples with similar patterns.
 I Noticed Something ...
After God began reshaping my own story of codependency more than a decade ago—and after walking alongside countless women and couples facing similar struggles—I began to notice something.
The women experiencing the deepest freedom weren't necessarily the women whose husbands had changed the most.
They were the women who had become deeply rooted in who they were in Christ.
They had learned to stop tying their worth, peace, identity, and sense of security to another person's actions or approval. Instead, they were learning to live from the freedom Jesus had already purchased for them.
“So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36
And that freedom began changing everything.
As their identity became rooted in Christ, they began recognizing and breaking the destructive patterns they had lived from for years—patterns I now call a Borrowed Identity.
They began to understand that their lives belonged to God. That they were fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). That they didn't have to spend their lives desperately trying to earn love, prove their worth, control outcomes, rescue others, disappear, perform, or fight to feel safe.
Jesus didn't die so we could remain bound to the very patterns He came to set us free from.
Yet I meet so many Christian women who desperately want healing. They've prayed. They've read the books. They've listened to sermons and podcasts. They've tried harder, forgiven again, communicated differently, and begged God to change their marriage.
And still, they feel stuck.
Not because God has forgotten them.
But because sometimes we are asking God to change what is happening around us, while He is inviting us to see what He wants to heal and transform within us.
Sometimes we can't walk out of a pattern we don't yet have eyes to see.
That was true for me, too.
And this is where my story begins...
COULD THIS BE YOUR INVITATION TO FREEDOM?
Maybe you see pieces of your own story in mine.
NOW, WHAT ABOUT YOUR STORY?
Maybe you’ve spent years hoping something would change.
Praying. Trying. Holding on. Wondering if the peace, confidence, connection, and freedom you long for are actually possible.
I want you to know—there is still so much hope for your story.
You don’t have to have everything figured out.
Your husband doesn’t have to be ready for your own healing to take place.
And you don’t need to know exactly how you’re going to get from where you are today to where you desperately want to be.
You just have to be willing to take the next step God is placing in front of you.
That’s why I created this free training.
It’s an invitation to stop spending all of your energy trying to change what you cannot control and begin discovering what God wants to heal, restore, and awaken within you.
Maybe this is the beginning of your own journey toward becoming The Set Free Woman.
Come see what freedom could look like for you.
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The Simple Approach Christian Women Are Using To Save Their Troubled Marriages By Healing Codependency, And Changing Destructive Patterns.
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- Gain Awareness:Â Go beyond the symptoms of what's wrong, to recognize the deeper dysfunction that's killing your marriage and your soul.
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Embark on a personal journey of your own transformation process which change the dysfunctional pattern that's at the root of your marriage problem (even if your husband isn't changing anything...yet)
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Create a behavioral shift in the marriage on your own from the transformation process that your husband will automatically follow.
And For Those Of You Who Are Saying "But Who The Heck Is This Girl To Show Me This Stuff"
Here's My Specific Experience
- Licensed Professional Therapist with over a decade of experience providing counseling for individuals, couples, and families.
- Over 25 years in the helping profession, including roles in foster care, DFS, crisis centers, mentorship programs, mental health services, coaching, and teaching.
- Specialized in working with married couples—guiding them through relational patterns rooted in shame, addiction, and codependency toward healing and connection.
- Led numerous therapeutic groups focused on helping women and couples move into their God-given identity, develop emotional and spiritual security, and experience transformation in their relationships.
- Experienced Christian women’s speaker, presenting at women’s conferences, marriage workshops, and church events focused on healing, identity, and relational freedom.
- 22+ years in church leadership, including pastoral roles, small group facilitation, and women’s ministry leadership.
- Creator and host of faith-based Bible studies, devotionals, and podcasts addressing emotional health, spiritual identity, and wholeness.
